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He Blames Me for his errors!

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He Blames Me for his errors!

Post by Oppa on Fri 27 Jan 2017, 5:30 pm

www.datingadvice.com/forum/topic/blames-me:
I have been dating this guy for awhile. He blames me for his
faults! How do I get past what the heart wants? He has not been
financially stable. I have been helping out. I stopped helping out
as much cuz he would not work. Every time I went to visit him
I ended up paying out money for something. So I stopped
going over even less hoping he would get the picture and work.
He has no car. He keeps pushing for me to let him move in my
home with me. I have not allowed it. I feel if he can not support
and maintain his home how is going to be positive partner for
mine? He finally was not able to cover his rent and to move in
with his mother. He blames me for not coming over more and
helping out more. I push him to be more than he is now. It just
takes effort. It bothers me that he is very content living with his
mother at the age of 37. His mother blames me. She feels I
should of let him move in already. I say he needs to be
financially stable first they say I am crazy and I dont love him.
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Re: He Blames Me for his errors!

Post by Oppa on Fri 27 Jan 2017, 5:36 pm

Answer: If he isn’t changing, then you should change the relationship by
refusing to put up with it anymore. Since you say that you’ve
been with him for awhile, I would guess that it’s been like this
for a long time and he’s not showing signs of improving the
situation himself. If you can’t convince him or his family, then
don’t put yourself through anymore unnecessary pain.
It’ll be hard, but you have all the right reasons to break up and
move on.
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